Anal sex? – Absolutely!

I had anal sex for the first time when I was 22. My partner was 30 years old at the time and very experienced. He took a lot of time.

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Interview Mit Viktoria

Anal sex is featured in many of Aurelie Escort’s profiles and many of our guests like and appreciate this arousing variant of lovemaking. Aurelie escort Victoria particularly appreciates anal play. Here she talks about exciting encounters, particularly arousing positions and unusual moments.

Victoria, anal sex is not just part of your repertoire, it’s a real passion. Why is that?

Victoria: I had anal sex for the first time when I was 22. My partner was 30 years old at the time and very experienced. He took a lot of time. He first took me vaginally and inserted first one and then two fingers with lots of lubricant into my anus.
I was electrified from the very first moment and came like never before in my life. His cock inside me and his fingers at the same time – amazing.

And then?

Then he asked me if I was ready for my first anal sex and smiled at me. And yes, I was ready.
He took his time and I thought it was incredible. A completely new, unique feeling. I touched my clitoris and came again – and it was so intense, so incredible, so wonderful. And I’ve wanted to experience that feeling again and again ever since.

And were you able to repeat these strong feelings?

More than that. I’ve had many anal experiences since then that have far surpassed the first time in terms of intensity.

Is there a position during anal sex that you particularly like?

Oh yes – when my partner lies on top of me in the missionary position and takes me vaginally first and then continues anally from the front in the same position. That’s great because my clitoris is already swollen and sensitive from vaginal intercourse and continues to be touched during anal intercourse in this position. I come every time during anal sex. And I love looking into my partner’s eyes and feeling his skin, feeling his breath.

Keyword partner: Do you need an experienced man for anal sex? After all, it can really hurt if done wrong.

It’s definitely good if one of you has experience with anal sex. It’s a big difference to vaginal sex, especially during the penetration phase.

What do you think are the biggest mistakes?

Time pressure. Anal sex takes time. When I have a date with a client, I always want at least 6 hours so that it’s great for both of us.
Many people are far too frugal with lube. I always use a large tube, because if there is any pain at all, it is usually only because the partner wants to penetrate too quickly, the penis creates too much friction and the anal canal is too dry. So start very slowly and with plenty of lubricant. Rule of thumb: If you think there was far too much lube and it’s taking too long, then it’s just right.

And when your partner is inside you – what about the intensity of the thrusts?

For me, it’s perfect if he lets his penis slide into me ten or twenty times very slowly. Very slowly. And a little deeper each time. When he’s inside me up to the shaft, I love it when he alternates between thrusting deep, hard and fast and then very slowly again.
I’m getting all wet just telling you about it…

Okay, let’s change the subject.
Are you often asked whether you can satisfy your male partner anally with a strap-on dildo?

(Laughs) It’s not really a change of subject because I find it just as arousing.
If a customer wants anal sex, it happens every third or fourth time. More and more men are discovering this fascination for themselves and find it really great when they first take me and satisfy me and then get to experience the same thing with themselves.
I’m sure more and more men will discover pegging for themselves.

Why do you think that?

Firstly, because pegging is becoming less and less of a taboo subject. It’s quite normal to talk about anal preferences these days. And secondly, because men have the great advantage over us women of their prostate. It is extremely stimulated during anal sex and all men have told me unanimously that they have never had better orgasms than during anal sex.

What do you pay attention to when you penetrate a man?

I love anal foreplay. The circling of his rosette, the slow penetration with my fingers moving up and down, back and forth inside him. I love the moment when I feel him letting go, surrendering, slowly widening.
I then often insert an anal plug and spoil him orally. That alone is a fantastic feeling. We celebrate the moment when I strap on my strap-on dildo together. I have a triple dildo – one penis for him and two inside me, so I can feel every thrust inside him – both vaginally and anally.
It excites me and him a lot. He touches the dildo while I rub it with plenty of lubricant.
Then I slowly pull out the butt plug and slide the dildo in very carefully.
I keep asking if what I’m doing is okay. Because unlike a man, I can’t feel anything in the dildo, not the resistance, not the dilation.
But it always works really well. And when I’m really deep inside him, I thrust harder. I play with a lot of men’s nipples, and the combination creates incredible arousal. Many men come without me or them touching their penis – it’s just so amazing and intense.

Wow, that sounds really good.
How do you prepare for anal sex?

When I know it’s going to happen, I shower as normal as I do before every date. If you’ve been to the toilet two or three hours before anal sex, I’ve never had any unpleasant experiences.

And what does unpleasant even mean?

Sex, in all its varieties, always has something animalistic about it if it’s supposed to be good. And I really know a lot of moments and bodily fluids that you would tend to look at in a distanced way in normal everyday life. But I think there’s only one rule in the intoxication of the senses: what both partners – or even several at the same time – find good and horny is wonderful.

Are there men who are too big for anal sex?

Not for me. But I love anal sex, I know many ways to get there and I can even take big-built men without any problems and even find it really good.
But that doesn’t apply to every woman in every situation. And that’s why, dear men: even if you are rightly proud of your big size, it doesn’t suit every woman at every moment.

Do you remember any special situations in which you had anal sex?

I’ve already told you about the first time.
Last year, a customer booked me for a date and told me straight away that he only wanted anal sex and that he was very demanding.
I thought that was great.

And was he demanding?

Yes, absolutely. Above all, he wanted it to be something special for me.
He booked me for the whole night and it was magical from the very first minute. An Italian with a tremendous zest for life.
Even at dinner, we were in a great mood and talked openly and bluntly about our shared passion.
We exchanged our preferences and experiences and really got into a frenzy of anticipation. And yes: we must have had anal sex with each other seven or eight times that night. In every conceivable variation and position, with wonderful breaks and incredible climaxes. Sometimes I was inside him, sometimes he was inside me. It was an unforgettable night. And to dispel a prejudice: nothing hurt – not a single moment. Nothing was embarrassing either and we were fine the next morning.
I am very happy that I can say that: With every man I’ve had anal sex with so far, it’s always been something very special.

And you never hesitated?

es, I did once. The booking asked if I wanted to have a small orgy with three men, with the explicit option of anal sex. I did think about it.
Fortunately, I decided to go for it.

Why?

Because it was also a fantastic evening.
The three men were extremely sophisticated, polite and very experienced. We had sex in all possible ways. But not anal.
I was a little disappointed.
But then, while I was sitting on one of them, the second politely asked if he could also take me anally.
Of course, I love that anyway.
The third then took this man anally at the same time. We moved rhythmically as one and melted together. We sank into each other for a quarter of an hour. Almost addicted to the ecstatic union of anal depth. I found it incredibly hot to be taken by a man who was in turn taken by another.
I would absolutely love to experience that again.